“Security in Marriage”
Pastor Chris Chadwick
4.6.08
Eph. 5:21-30
“Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:”
“Marriage is intended to be a wonderful experience! Today we are going to focus on six truths from the Scripture for the husband. To have a happy and fulfilling marriage, each man here this morning needs to realize that his wife needs security.
1. She needs to be secure in you EMOTIONALLY – Eph. 6:25-28. As the husband, you are the head of the home! You have been empowered by Christ to be a strong husband. The man is to be the stable entity in the relationship. Being strong does not mean being hard or cold – it means that you will be courageous in each situation that life brings your way; and it also means that you can take your wife’s criticism, and handle her opinions.
2. She needs to be secure in you PHYSICALLY – 1 Peter3. She needs to know that someone is going to protect her physically!
3. She needs to be secure in you FINANCIALLY – 1 Peter 5:8. She needs to be secure in the financial decisions that you make! Make smart decisions.
4. She needs to be secure in your LOVE – This love cannot be just an intellectual love; It must be sincere and from the heart. Other than God, your wife should be the most important person in your life – treat her that way!
5. She needs to be secure in your LONGING for her – Prov. 5:1-5. There are plenty of other forces out there that want your time and heart – make sure that you make your wife your only desire, and make sure that she knows you are only longing after her. Prov. 5:15-16
6. She needs to be secure in you SPIRITUALLY – Eph. 5:25.
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